Psychological Reasons for disinterest in Sex

The most common Psychological Reasons for disinterest in Sex include:
  • Cultural factors, such as the way you were raised to think about sex
  • Low self-esteem
    ("Self-esteem" is a term in psychology to reflect a person's overall evaluation or appraisal of his or her own worth. Self-esteem encompasses beliefs (for example, "I am competent", "I am worthy") and emotions such as triumph, despair, pride and shame).
  • Depression
  • Conflict with your partner
  • A history of sexual trauma such as abuse or assault
  • Stress and psychological health

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